Recommended By A Student I Tutor

 The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab

A little backstory...Back in June, a friend of mine asked me to have his daughter write me a book report. She'd not turned in some assignments and even though she passed, he wanted her to show she could do the work. So, I pulled a dozen or so books together and took to her. While we were talking about books, she told me this was the only book she sort of read in her English class. She was enthusiastic when she talked about it, so I told her I'd read it because she liked it so much. 

I am not as enthusiastic about it.

When I was told about this book, I was told the teacher paired it with The Odyssey, so I was looking for it to be a modern retelling of that, or at least related to it. The only connection this book has to the epic poem is that Addie reads it at several points in her life.

This, as it turns out, is a modern retelling of Goethe's Faust or Marlow's Doctor Faustus. 

Addie is a young woman in France at the beginning of the book, and on the day that she is supposed to be married (against her will), she sells her soul to Luc. Part of her sentence is that she is always forgotten. She can't say or write her name either. This book encompasses three hundred years, and all of Addie's lovers during that time. The ending disappointed me.

I did not expect this to be as tedious as it was. I only actually read a hundred pages or so. The rest I listened to the audiobook. If I hadn't, I probably would've abandoned this book. In truth, I really only liked the chapters when she was with Henry, and then the author went and fucked that up.

I am not sure I could in good faith recommend this. 

Homework From My Therapist

 Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder by Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger

First and foremost, I should mention that I "read" this as an audiobook, which is not really my style, but it was free on Audible, so...

In my session last week, my therapist "assigned" this to me as "homework." Usually, my homework consists of writing in my journal or things like that. This was the first time she had me read a book. I won't say I loved it because this isn't the kind of book you want to fall in love with, but it did provide me with some insight. 

As the title implies, this book is about taking your life back when someone you care about has BPD or NPD. 

One thing this book did for me is show me that I am not crazy. That the things I have experienced with some of the people in my life that I care about aren't my fault. Hearing some of the descriptors and stories from others helped me to see them in people I love. 

That isn't to say that at times I haven't exhibited traits of NPD or BPD, but that was something that was made very clear: sometimes everyone exhibits those traits. It's a fact of life. But exhibiting them from time to time and always are two very different things. 

I liked that the information was presented in layman's terms and that there were personal examples--both of people dealing with BPD and NPD in their lives, as well as the loved ones they interacted with. Perspective helped. 

I would definitely recommend this book to people who have loved ones with BPD or NPD.

Before There Was Juliet...

 Fair Rosaline by Natasha Solomons

For most of my teaching career, I taught freshman English, which means I taught Romeo and Juliet A LOT. Every time I read it, I find little things I never noticed before (like there's an Ok Boomer-type joke between Capulet and one of his guests). One thing I have always pointed out to my students is that Romeo isn't the romantic hero that time has made him out to be. He's flighty and lovesick. He's a creeper (I mean, he jumps the wall to Juliet's backyard, watches her while she's talking to herself, then, once she's poured her heart out, lets her know he's there). He's also sixteen hitting on a thirteen-year-old child. 

When we read R&J, all we learn of Rosaline is that until mere moments before he sees Juliet, Romeo is in love with Rosaline, and that she is going to become a nun. I have always jokingly said that Romeo drove her to a sex-free life (without actually saying that because I'd like to keep my job). As it turns out, Rosaline is bound for the nunnery because it's what her father wants. Allegedly, it is what her dead mother wanted too, as a letter left for Rosaline after her mother's death indicates as much. The problem with that is that her mother was illiterate and couldn't write, so this letter was "dictated" to her father and he wrote it. Somehow methinks he made that up. 

At any rate, Rosaline manages to get her father to agree to let her be free for a bit before going to the nunnery. She wants a year, but her father gives her twelve days. The first thing she does is dress as a man and go to a party at the Montague house. Of course, she meets Romeo. He says pretty words and she falls in love with him. Oh, and he's like 25 in this book, and Rosaline is 15 (and Juliet is still 13, so ewwwww). Anyway, he weasels his way into her bed and deflowers her, which is not going to bode well at the nunnery, but she believes Romeo when he says he wants to marry her. All those lines he is famous for in R&J he has used on every conquest he's had. 

Romeo is slick. He gets Rosaline drunk and/or roofied, and steals the necklace that was her mother's. He tells her that she gave it to him. He convinces her to steal money from her father. Then there are little chinks in the armor, if you will. First, there is a young (like 12) girl who is pregnant with Romeo's baby. Then, when she is visiting the nunnery in Mantua, she finds the cell/room of a young woman who was also one of Romeo's conquests. Ultimately, they were both poisoned by Friar Laurence (remember that soliloquy when he talks about the duality of plants?).

When Rosaline confronts Romeo at the Capulet's party, he, of course, denies everything. The rest, as they say, is history. We all know the story. What we don't know is that Rosaline, with the help of Tybalt, tries to get through to Juliet, but she's not having it. 

And Tybalt? His death is a bit more grisly in this book than what Willie Shakes wrote. Like Romeo stabs him more than once and there's viscera everywhere. Oh, and they're fighting in the graveyard, not the middle of town.

There are just enough little differences to make this interesting, but on the whole, this book is mid, as the kids say. Am I glad I read it? I guess so, but if I'd never read it, I could've been fine too.

A STEM Trio

 Loathe to Love You by Ali Hazelwood

This book contains three short stories, each about a different woman, who are all friends.

The first story, "Under One Roof," is about Mara. She inherited half of a house in Washington DC from her mentor. The other half of the house belongs to the mentor's nephew, Liam. They can't stand one another at first, but as time, in this case weeks, they start to warm up to one another. Ultimately, they have incredible sex because they fell in love.

The second is "Stuck With You," and this one is about Sadie. She lives in New York City, and is very superstitious. Like, eats the same thing and wears the same underwear when she is presenting a pitch because she attributes her first "win" to those things. It is because of this that she meets Erik, who just happens to work in her building. They end up spending a good portion of the day together before going back to his apartment for incredible sex. Then, she hates him due to a misunderstanding, until they are stuck in an elevator together, where they talk things out.

The third is "Below Zero" starring Hannah, a NASA engineer. She gets stuck in a crevasse in Norway, and Ian comes to rescue her. Five years prior, they hit it off, but she hurt his feelings when she wouldn't go to dinner with him. Fast forward to the present, he vetoes her project at NASA, which leads to her stuck in said crevasse. He rescues her, they have incredible sex.

Then there is a Bonus Chapter which is told by Liam, Erik, and Ian. It fills in a little bit of the what happens next that I, as a reader, always want to know.

In all, I have enjoyed reading this. It would be difficult to say which story I liked best because there were bits I loved in all three. 

Now the wait for her next book is on.

Love and Physics

 Love Theoretically by Ali Hazelwood

Because I read it before I resumed my blog, I never reviewed Love on the Brain by the same author. Because I loved that book, I bought this one, the previous one I reviewed, as well as the next one I am reading. They're cute books, and I end up learning some things.

This one is about Elsie who is a theoretical physicist, but working as an adjunct professor and a fake girlfriend. The brother of one of the men she fake dates is Jack, and he seems to despise Elsie just for existing. 

Elsie is up for her dream job at MIT, and has to go through an extensive interview process that involves dinner and talking to everyone in the department. At the fancy dinner, in walks Jack because he works in the physics department at MIT. Turns out, he is the guy that wrote an article that caused a great divide between theoretical physicists and experimental physicists, and Elsie hates him.

What ensues is a series of misunderstandings that lead to the two of them dating. There was one really spicy scene that was so fun to read, and some heartbreak, but on the whole, I enjoyed this immensely. 

Also, I got the Barnes and Noble edition that has a section in the back where the author pairs Taylor Swift songs with the chapters and gives her reasoning.